Indecisive; defined as a situation where a particular person could not make a decision over a matters. Factors that may cause the person to be indecisive may be things like self-confidence, self-ability, etc. (wIX. 1989. p.1989)

In a certain situation where you may have predicted the best and the worst outcome for making such vital decisions, how many would actually follow their thinking and how many would have follow their feeling?

For those who would most likely follow their mind, yes, the damage or impact would probably be lessen. But then, there remains a part of your heart that would not be satisfied with the outcome because most of the outcome wouldn't be as nice as imagined. It normally takes miracle for such people to have a happy ending.

For the "feelers", the process resembles a gamble. A situation where the outcome may be a 50:50, they gamble the results with the confidence provided from their heart. The feeling that they are doing the right thing for themselves. The lucky ones would get everything they hoped for while the unlucky ones would get nothing back; they may have just ruin every single hope and opportunity that they've got by taking such decision. Those succeeded would gain the maximum satisfaction with the whole situation.

As the concluding part, be happy and thankful if most of your problems can be solved with the thinking and feeling providing the same answer to it. Being in such a situation does not improve any sorts of critical thinking or creativity. The most that a person can gain is an improved decision making and stress-management. No others included. 

Update @2014: I wonder if I'm making a correct decision, but sometimes I feel defeated by the situation, rather than my own decision. I really cherished a lot of thing that happened, I really hope that it won't just go away just like this. I know I am the one responsible for this, I just didn't know how to get this fixed. What I lost is a lot more than it appears to everyone looking at me.

Friends Forever?

Side by side, and we'll go through everything together

I've been wondering..how many times will I have to change my communication network again?As everyone knows, one person may have a lot of friends, but best friends should be few..unless that particular person trusts people that easily..for me, I usually mixes with the people that I feel I'm comfortable with and somehow I managed to get comfortable with quite a number of people..quite a number doesn't meant a lot..LOL..but is there an expiry date for those friendships??As I always recall back when I'm back to my hometown, there're a lot of people who's really close to me at one time, and now it was like minding our own business instead..we may have joked and smiled when we met by coincedence..but it will only last for a few minutes i guess..perhaps it's because of the different lifestyle and location we're in that causes the changes..so,if i were supposed to count how many best friend that I had..i guess i could only name 3 or 4 people out..20 years of life and only 3 or 4 best friends..is that amount a lot or little?but for me, it's enough already i guess

Paw to paw forever. by Boo

..and currently for me, i've suit myself in the new environment and together with a group of new friends which is my collegemates and what i found out was i'm comfortable being friends with them too..guess that they too have those 'potential' for me to consider them as 'best friends' or 'buddies'..hahaha..we're close and happy by now..but what will happen after one year passes?i'll most probably be pursuing my degree in a part-time mode and most of the are planning to continue with the full time mode..guess that's the problem..time's just isn't enough for us to develop the friendship..we are probably gonna stay in contact..but if we were going to meet up after going our own ways, will there be so much fun and topics to be shared together?I truely hoped so..cause finding true friends isn't an easy task and when there's any,try to value the moments that you've been gone through together..it may be fun,sad,funny,or even exciting..but i'm sure it's enjoyable to have times like these because as we grow, the spaces for entertainment and fun will be fading away step by step..that's why friends must enjoy and appreciate when everyone are spending time togetherthough we might be apart, but our friendship lasts

FRIENDS are just like LOVE and FAMILY..it's just way too PRICELESS and VALUABLE for anyone.

2nd was the hardest thing for me to ever let go

It took my quite a time to actually find another girl that I would like to LOVE after breaking up with my first gf. Perhaps it may sound a little hard to believe, but when I first met both of my gf, there's something like love in first sight that happened during that moment..hahaha..though it maybe because it's their appearance that attracts me at that time, but at the moment I saw her, I knew that her smile was one of the most beautiful thing I've ever seen.

Your smile, is priceless for me

And during the time before i eventually met with my second gf, I've sort of realised the mistakes that I've done or not done when I'm together with my first gf and I did my best not to repeat any of that mistake again when it comes to falling in love for the second time. Because of that, I kept on searching for the time to be spent together and also even celebrates some events that I sort of created it own my own..celebrating her b'day according to the lunar calendar, celebrating the first month, 99th and 100th day and also the Valentine occasion that I could barely forget bout the preparation for it..although all of those really need a lot of effort, but I always thought that it'll be worth it in order to exhange for her love..which is the thing that I did not do very well for my first gf, I did all these because I wanted to give her all that I can, hoping that I'll be a person worth enough for her love.

My Valentine gift for her.

Compilation of us, only for her.

I did all of that without expecting much back from her, because I did it based on my freewill and I had no regrets over what I've did for her. But yet, due to certain circumstances back then, problems occurred between us; and the problem somehow led to our break-up. The problem was something that apparently is something that is hard to be explained properly, it has something to do with our communication method and at some point, I eventually thought that I was the only one to be putting every effort into the relationship. Because at the particular period of time, I couldn't feel any feedback being given from her. (Feedback in terms of the effort in the relationship) So, one problem leads to another, and eventually caused me to think up the worst possible solution; which is to end the relationship. And FYI, even after the break-up, we did not have a single fight or quarrel.

And after that, I once thought that I actually have gained from making the decision, but as now I'm writing this up, I honestly felt that the decision was somehow the one of the biggest mistake I've made in my entire life, and realised how ignorant I was back then. I then learned that the saying that "people won't appreciate things beside them until it's lost" is true enough. And I need some effing two years to actually realise my own mistake, to realise that from every single aspect, she was the best I could have had, the one who loved me so much, but only to express it little by little. It is true that every relations have its ups and downs, but it is also true that I took it for granted and never once stepped into her point of view and understand what's her thought and what she had did for me all the while.为什么人总要失去后才学会珍惜

Because it is true that our conversation topics were limited to a certain extent, but she was never bored to hear me sharing my stories.
Because it is true that our lifestyle is different, (working and studying), but she tried her best to spend her free time with me in the weekends.
Because it is true that she's unable to develop a friendlier relationship with my family member, but the time we spent with each others' family, was definitely much much better than other couples would have.

You were the best

But if I didn't lose her, I don't think I will realise my mistake and how important she was and she is to me. And now that things may have been too late for any turn backs, I can only take it as a lesson: one lesson that is proved to be very costly, because I think I've lost something that is so valuable.
And I believe that although I cannot change anything from the past, but yet it is still up for me to decide on my future. So, no more dwelling, and I shall work hard for a better future, because I believe if that some thing is yours, it will eventually be yours, it is only a matter of time. Because I chose to believe that everything will be okay in the end, and if it's not okay, it's not the end!

Don't we look good together?